Relating is simple, and can be hard.
The internet is full of courses, books, and videos showing us how to relate, so knowing what to do is simple, even easy.
ACTUALLY doing it, in the moment, when we are triggered, this can be very hard.
So how do we get the relationships we want? Practice, practice, practice.
Practice doing what works, and practice letting go of what doesn’t.
Unlearn the habits that are keeping us from love, and remember ways to stay in love.
I have trained and practiced communication and relationship skills for over 15 years. I honed and mastered my craft when it matters, in the fire of a high conflict marriage. I know what works and what doesn’t. Some of my favorite tools for getting the love we want are NVC, Gottman, EFT, Imago, 5 Love languages, as well as powerful time tested indigenous practices.
Book a session and we will practice together.
Call me for a free 15 minute session.
My understanding is our ancient ancestors didn’t have our modern relationship struggles, some cultures don’t even have words for divorce or even jealousy. They lived most of their life outside in harmony with nature and each other.
So I am doing something different, I’m moving my office outside in nature.
Most of the the therapy/counseling sessions I have been to were in an ugly office building in a blah location. No thanks.
So I am doing sessions on mountain tops with beautiful views, and beaches with sand in our toes and salty sea in the air and the soothing sound of waves.
On a nice blanket or in comfy camp chairs, we will recharge with sunshine and grounding, while letting mother nature hold us.
If this is to much we can move to my backyard in the garden among the fruit trees and birds singing.
If that is to much we can move to the sauna (add $40 for electricity), turn up the heat and bring warmth to the relationship.
If this is still to much we can move to a room in my house.
This is new adventure, so if after your first session you feel it didn’t help message me within a couple days and I will give you a 50% refund.
