Breakup Is the Beginning – Heal Your Heart, Awaken Your Purpose, and Be Who You Are Meant to Be
Breakup Is the Beginning is not just a book about heartbreak.
It’s a journey through grief, healing, awakening, and becoming.
Inside these pages you’ll discover:
- The path back to self-worth, clarity, and love
- How to heal after breakup and divorce
- Relationship patterns and emotional wounds
- Communication and intimacy skills
- Love languages, attachment, and polarity
- How heartbreak can awaken purpose
Unlearning to Remember – Finding Truth in a World That Forgot
You did what you were taught.
Work hard. Stay strong. Be successful.
Push through. Don’t slow down. Don’t feel too much.
And yet… something still feels off.
Maybe a relationship ended and cracked you open.
Maybe anxiety or burnout crept in quietly.
Maybe you’ve achieved what you were supposed to achieve — but it didn’t bring the peace you thought it would.
If you’ve ever felt disconnected from yourself, from your partner, or from the natural world… this book is for you.
Unlearning to Remember is an invitation to gently question the conditioning we’ve absorbed about success, strength, love, and identity — and to remember the deeper truth already alive inside us.
Through personal stories of marriage, fatherhood, surfing, meditation, community, loss, and renewal, Clay Schmitz explores what happens when we stop fighting life and begin listening instead.
Inside you’ll discover how to:
- Move from fear and anxiety into grounded presence
• Turn conflict into connection
• Ask for what you need without blame or defensiveness
• Build intimate partnership rooted in trust and vulnerability
• Reclaim your body, intuition, and inner steadiness
This is not about escaping modern life.
It’s about inhabiting it more consciously.
It’s about becoming the kind of partner, parent, friend, and human being who brings calm instead of chaos — who chooses love over fear.
The world may have forgotten what truly matters.
But you can remember.
Available now on Amazon.com as a Paperback and on Kindle:
Unlearning to Remember: Finding Truth in a World That Forgot